A personal session Sexological Bodywork starts always with a first interview of two hours. Beforehand you will receive a short questionnaire. We begin the interview with these questions focusing on what are your desires, what do you want to change and what are your goals?
This procedure is the same when you come with a partner. The focus then is on learning to communicate better or asking for what you want. Or you might want to learn how to give an erotic or tantra massage, or how to enjoy your sex-life more.
The second half of this first meeting is non-verbal. We do exercises like a short meditation, movement, yoga, breathing, hands-on, massage and connecting with the earth. The idea is to get to know each other a bit more. And also to see how you deal with new information.
I always work with expressing yourself, verbally and non-verbally, with raising your body awareness, with embodiment. Mental insight only is not enough. In order to transform you need to change your behavior. Which means: practice, practice and practice in order to repattern yourself. For instance: the idea that great sex always ends in a peak orgasm/ejaculation transforming into enjoying deep relaxation and high arousal at the same time and experiencing valley orgasms: warm sex.
After this session we decide together weather we want to continue. If yes it means we make three new appointments.
Tim:“I came to ONEstudio because I felt stuck in a groove regarding my sex life. Sexual arousal and desire seemed to have become increasingly more elusive for me, and erectile dysfunction, insecurity and a low sex drive were increasingly more common. Through Sexological Bodywork I’m slowly getting more comfortable to get in tune with my (sexual) body, learning to put aside feelings of shame, and rediscovering simple pleasure (or maybe even discovering it for the first time). Franscis is a very professional, communicative and attentive mentor, who invites you to open your eyes and broaden your horizon with his calming and down-to-earth approach.”
Perry:My road to “enlightenment” started last year with four Sexological Bodywork sessions from Franscis. Then a world opened up for me and it left me wanting more. This was followed by an Orgasmic Yoga course and a Kashmirian tantra massage workshop. By exposing myself literally and figuratively during these sessions, which consisted of breathing exercises, Yoga, partner Yin Yoga and mindful touches, I have rediscovered the true feeling, pleasure and touch for my own being and body. I experienced a “cosmic” orgasm for the first time (at home) during one of my masturbation sessions. The focus was not just on the ejaculation, but on a deeply liberating and loving feeling that could be felt from head to toe and in every cell. I want more and still have a long way to go, but Franscis’s knowledgeable, patient and very friendly guidance has inspired me deeply. Thank you Francis!!!
Tavio: Welcome to my body, the lion in me has awakened! Franscis has invited me in peace and safety to free my pelvis from old trauma and beliefs. Where I have experienced deep connection and ecstasy, with a tear and a big smile. You have contributed immensely to my sexual quest. It is so uncomfortable and nice at the same time to be a sexually attractive being. Well … better late than never. I am very grateful to you for this special experience and your honest guidance.
Theresa & Brian:“Franscis is an amazing masseur and his knowledge, expertise and personality really helped us relax and completely engage in the massage. This was our first visit and we had a wonderful experience both physically and mentally, and will definitely be returning to continue our journey. Franscis awakened new senses and feelings in both of us, which has brought us closer together and made us more sensitive to each other’s needs. We highly recommend this experience to all couples.”
Koos: In ONE studio Franscis has created an open and relaxed atmosphere where I immediately feel at ease. My question after my coming out, after a marriage with children: How can I deal with my new identity in an honest and healthy way, Franscis helped me enormously in a surprising and moving way. After an intake and three sessions, it is a great discovery and a nice feeling to discover my body in a new way. I can feel my sexual energy flowing throughout my body. An eye-opener to enjoy my body with all the emotions that go with it. Accepting and loving yourself, what a party. Franscis, thank you very much, what a wonderful profession you have. Highly recommended for anyone who wants to look openly and honestly at their own sexuality. It’s worth taking your sex life to the next level.
Mike: rather difficult to know what to say….for me there seemed to be periods of communication I never knew I could experience; you broke down barriers for me and you have a wisdom I wish I could achieve. I would very much like to connect again. It was not , for me, particularly a sexual experience, more an understanding and connection on an intimate level and that made it enormously more valuable for me. You have helped me understand what I am and need to accept being. There is so much more to life than chasing an orgasm! Thank you so much, I will return.
Sanne: Dear Franscis, before I came to you I knew this would be my next step in my development. Sometimes that is knowing without being able to explain it. I want to thank you very much for this special experience. I came to myself, to my essence through the loving touch of your hands. attuned to each other at that moment without having to achieve anything. Amalgamation I experienced during this session. You created to me with such respect and security. No words for it. Love Sanne
Michael: This is all really good. Thank you for taking the time to listen. I feel great about the whole session. I feel relieved that you were so open and comfortable with learning and exploring together. Getting to see and feel more about this unknown pelvic floor area, is what I really needed. I will look at the recommendations and spend another month working on this and let you know how it is going. Thanks again I really aprecciate it.